Is there hope for the ugly? Is it true that a good personality matters more?

Be honest here. I don't need to boost my confidence.Is there hope for the ugly? Is it true that a good personality matters more?
Yes.Is there hope for the ugly? Is it true that a good personality matters more?
No.





If the physical attraction isn't there then it ain't happening in the bedroom. If you know what I mean?





Personality comes later AFTER we've gotten to know the person better.





Appearance is what gets people to sit up and take notice.





Don't take my word for it. The cosmetics and fashion industry is a multi-Billion dollar a year business.





They wouldn't be if nobody was into appearance and looking their best.





Just keeping it real for all the idiots out there that keep saying appearance doesn't matter at all, or whatever.
Yes! Of course there is. I promise, there's someone out there for you that will love you regardless of whether you're ugly or not, because that's not what matters.
nope .. all about the looks , If you notice guys or girls date the other person 99 % of the time based on there appearance .





So it's all about the looks and if girls tell u other wise .. there not being truthful to you ! =P
Well, like you (i guess based on this question) im an ugly guy trying to find a gf and failing miserably. I do agree with the first answer. But im friends with this guy, (good looking guy) and friends with his ex, who dumped him 3 times. She sais to me now, ';that when i look at him, i don't see him as good looking anymore, hes a jerk and i dont like him, hes just ugly to me now'; It got me thinking, that looks obviously do help to get someone interested, but when you know someone well. if you like them as a person and they are a good friend, then you look a them and get a sence of safety and security, and they seem more attractive, coz you like them and you can trust them, and if you dont like them you wanna stay away from them. If any of this makes sence. I feel that you need to be like really good friends with a girl first, and when your like best friends with your girlfriend, it means so much more and prolly feels right. I think most people go out with other people to make them selves look good to other people. How many people do you hear say ';im going to the cinema with my boyfriend'; rather than ';im going to the cinema with Tom/Jake/Alex';, to there mates, who know the name of there boyfriend anyway. Its all so they can announce to the world they have a bf, and they look for the good looking guys. In a loving relationship between 2 good mates, looks dont matter i dont think. So yes there is hope. All the good looking guys get used by girls to brag about, where as when they come to there sence. We're the real deal and the best ones for a proper relationship
Beauty is relative. Everyone has a different perception of what's beautiful and what isn't. But humans are aesthetic creatures and they do notice looks. But I think it's ridiculous to indicate that a personality means nothing. If a ';hot'; guy wants to get with me but he's a total freaking douchebag then I don't want ANYTHING to do with him.
i believe there is no such thing as being ugly.


someone out there will find you stunning!





keep the faith! lol.


good luck
Ok well, initially looks do matter. Not necessarily good looks. Just a look, something about someones face that appeals.


But, once you know someone, that all changes. Looks are unimportant once you know and like someone and their personality.





Now, as for somones clothes......thats another story!
Well... there is no way I could've relied on looks to get a man. lol
i hate that this has to be asked at all, i hate that society dictates so much garbadge at us that we have a totally unrealistic view of what is beautiful. I love the soul, the essence of a person. Is there hope for the ugly? what is ugly? what constitutes ugly here? A beautifull person can have an ugly, nasty soul.
First of you have to define ugly to yourself. Beauty is a mask that people use to attract other beautiful people but for what? I have dated beautiful women so paranoid of losing their looks because they have nothing else to offer. Sure it looks good but after a short while its not enough to keep anyone happy. Where do you think all these blonde jokes some from? There is more hope for the ';ugly'; as you put it, than you think. Give yourself more credit and use the God given gifts yo have to make yourself stand out. Myself, Im a joker and I have a great wife. We talk about it all the time that if i was serious she wouldn't be as happy. Do you write, sing, dance, joke, create, are you honest, artistic, humble etc.? Look for and use these gifts to call out that true person that's meant for you and stop buying into today beauty BS. There is someone for everyone, maybe even more depending on how you present yourself. p.s. in this life there is more levels than just ';beautiful'; and ';ugly';........seek them. Gauge people also from within as well as the outside. Don't judge a book by its cover
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, you may think so and so is ugly to you doesnt mean that the next person that turns the corner wont think that person is the most beautiful person they have ever seen.





i mean as me and my boyfriend say, personality is important but you cant have a full relationship unless you are attracted to them physically, because you may be like they make me laugh and smile etc but i cant kiss them, what kind of relationship is that.





i mean me and my partner dont think we ourselves attractive but we find each other very attractive.
of course there is!!





my ex is fat and not attractive at all. (im NOT being mean here, just truthful)





and everyone always tells me how pretty i am.





i really liked him tho even tho he wasnt very good-looking. so i went out with him even though everyone made fun of me for it.





then he ended up being a jerk to me and ending it because he thought HE was too good for me.





but w/e.


the point is- i went out with him without caring about his looks.





just make sure you dont turn ur back on ur girl ;)