Do i still have the right to hope for true love?

when I don't want to do anything anymore..i have no enthusiasm for anything...i don't want to work...don't want to go out or meet new people...i think i'm just waiting for the end of my time....but i truly want to love and be loved....it's like my last wish. Is that still possible in my condition?


sorry i really don't know where to post this Q.Do i still have the right to hope for true love?
Yes. Many people meet people just right for them on the internet. Just be careful of what you believe. Honestly, I've met better people online than in bars and clubs. You can pick and choose what you have in common online. I suggest a dating website. Some are free, match.com is cool, webdate, matchmaker I think too.Do i still have the right to hope for true love?
Love, take a moment and just breath.....you're trying to do to much at one time...How can you love someone else if you don't love yourself enough to snap out of this hole your end..Now pull your self together...take a nice hot shower, put on some music and dance around the house...all by yourself..have a glass of wine if you like..but lets start loving ourself from the inside out one step at a time.. Go and get your hair done, get your nails done..see a movie just get out of the house. Next just relax and let things happen in God's time...We miss out on so many blessing trying to rush God plan.. Step out of your shell and just live and enjoy...Don't worry about what friends and family might think just make yourself happy doing positive things for you... Good luck
Your true nature ';IS'; Love. If you cannot feel Love for yourself, you will be incapable of Loving anyone else. Love yourself and the world will fall in Love with you. Deny yourself Love and it will avoid you!
God is Love - Book of James. Jesus is The truth. 3 pages of daily christian ways.


True Love is available but it only exists


in Scriptures. 1st John - 3 pages of basic ways of a follower of true love.





how long to read 6 pages? how long you been looking. in all the wrong places?





read the 6 pages and do not lean on your own understanding. or conform to the patterns of this world but rather renew your mind so you will know God's good and perfect will for you. Romans12:2 and 2cor10:5 conform your thoughts to Scripture or reject your thought. follow the leader. Word became flesh and flesh becomes word when you are minded in it. Then whatever you ask the Father in My Name He will do for you.


It is in your nature to want a man to love.


Try Church!
i don't go through anything like what your saying, but when I come back from deployment i'm always a bit down and don't feel like doing anything. So I at least understand the feelings.





I don't go seek med help, drugs only mask a problem. I ride it out.





as for finding a true love, if you keep doing what you have done in the past to find someone, and you keep being attracted to the same type of guys, you will keep suffering the same thing.





find someone different who will cherish you and honor and be faithful to you.





tall order, but look forsomeone that you have not looked for before.
Yes.
You are accurately describing clinical depression. Get in touch with your county mental health entity, and get some help working for you. Don't wait. Get it under control, and get back to things like love, happiness, work, etc. It is all out there waiting for you. Good luck.
Okay I'm not sure if your a man or a women but it doesn't matter first let me say of course it's wonderful that you want to love someone and to be loved by someone. Most of us have been there. Second let me say maybe you are suffering from depression have you seen a doctor. If this is a change for you to not want ot do anything anymore that is a huge sign of depression and that can be helped. You should go see your primary care physician. My momma suffered from depression and she is doing so much better now that she is getting help. You shouldn't worry about finding love until you get yourself feeling better love will come in it's own time dedicate some time to yourself pamper yourself your worth it! God Bless You my friend.
you will always have the right to love, to be loved, but only you can make it happen, and if you have given up..it doesn't mean you've lost your right, it just means you've stopped trying..keep the faith what ever yours is.., but its totally up to you if it happens..
You sound really depressed, and I would hope you call someone who will help you through it.





My answer is, the problem you are having is not what you think, which is not being loved by others. Somewhere along the line, you did not internalize the truth that you are lovable. You don't love yourself. You must see how wonderful and lovable you are before you can love anyone else, or anyone can love you.


Go out and help someone who is in more need of love than you are right now.


Mother Teresa once told a devotee of hers when he asked what he could do for her, to go into the streets in the early morning hours, find someone who thinks he is alone, and convince him he is not.


You are not alone, my friend.
For our dreams to be realized we need to have a positive intention followed by positive action. In order for someone to love you, you have to first love yourself and then be able to love someone else. Prince or princess charming is not going to just show up on your doorstep. Deal with your depression first and then go out and live. If you are willing to do those things, I think you have every right to hope for love.
It sounds to me like you are depressed. I think the first step would be to get help for that. There is nothing wrong with seeking help when you need it. We all have periods in our lives when we feel that way. Remember that there is always hope for tomorrow and what it will bring and to love and be loved is something I think we all wish for.
I think so but unless your going try and pick up dates at a mental institution you might want to ease up a bit on yourself. I too have no desire to work and frankly the new people I've met recently have left me with little desire to continue the search. But that's just on a bad day. Chill out my friend, if your still breathing your still in the game. And really for a last wish you couldn't have picked a better one. That alone should fill you with hope. Good luck with your wish...but about the work thing...call that one a wash.
life is cruel and unjust.


i have many handicaps, i hurt all day, i'm dog ugly.


i've never had love, no, not even from my mother.


all i ever wanted was love, all i ever was, was a hole.


i have tried suicide, they brought me back.


i know why though. i have to live to help others.


i do that. in hundreds of ways. i pray for people,


give when i can, to whom ever i can. i say hello to


everybody. i read scripture everyday and i Praise the


TRINITY. i'm here regardless of how painful it is.





hope for love.


look for love.


but Above all Give love.





read Psalms. they really help.
Sounds like you're depressed. You'll probably hear that from a lot of answerers but it's true. Medication helps. If you do not want or can not afford to get a prescription, natural alternatives such as sAM-e, 5HTP, and DHEA are a good starting point. I take or have taken all of them and they work wonders. I have been in that place many times, where I'm just waiting to die, and hoping it will be sooner rather than later. Wanting someone to love proves that you are not beyond hope, that there is part of you that seeks companionship and life beyond the world you have created. Everyone has the right to hope, to dream, to love. You are not an exception. You should try one of the supplements I've stated above as well as a vitamin B complex, ginseng, ginko, and a regular multi-vitamin. The combination should be enough to kick-start your 'enthusiasm' and the rest of your life should follow suit. Hope this helped.
An echo from the one above me. ~YES~
No - not in your condition. You are very depressed. The depression could be warranted, or could be caused from a medical issue. Either way please get medical help.





The reason I said ';No'; is because, no one enjoys being around a negative person. Also negative people withdraw, so how are you going to meet anyone? Depressed people focus on the negative side of everything. Would you love someone like that?





When you are happy again, love will find you!





I struggled with depression for years (caused by hypothyroid) and the doctors helped me. I can't tell you how good it felt to be happy and laugh again. And you can too! I took anti-depressants for 1-1/2 years. Today I'm not on any medicine and I am still happy! Good luck and God bless.
If you already know Jesus, get up and shine for Him.If you don't, you definitely need Him.





Jesus wants all the best for you. He wants you to experience joy and contentment. So if there's something keeping that away from you, you need to tell Him about it. He knows how to fix it.
dear heart ~


I suspect that it is everyone's truest wish, desire, longing....





we all long to be received as the love that we are,


and to give all we have to give





Everything in this world arises from Love.





Even despair. Move yourself as you can, take an action and express yourself, tiny at first, just make a kind act towards anyone.


Let it blossom from there.


Keep your little camp fire burning, and pretty soon, it will be full and hot, and you will know the love you long to know..........
You are suffering from depression and the only one who can take it from you forever and heal you from it, is Jesus.


Call on His Name and ask Him to come into your heart , He can brake the chains tonight, you do not have to be tormented like that.
That's natural but you can't allow yourself to be so miserrable because you are without love. Go out and make yourself happy first. Do the things that are important to you and love will find you when it's ready.





Love cannot be rushed.
The story of Pandora's Box is that there is always hope. I'm sorry you are feeling this way, if you need to chat, I'm a good listener.
You can hope for true love, but if you are unwilling to actually do anything to make it happen, don't expect it to fall in your lap.
Everyone was ';made'; to be loved, accepted, revered, respected, and cherished. Humans are ';meant'; and ';made'; to be loved. So to give you a superficial answer to your question, yes, you have the right to hope for true love, along with the billions of other people who inhabit this planet. The Bible says that God created us in His own image (Genesis 1:27), and since we know that God is glorified and highly esteemed, it is only logical that a being created in His image (i.e., ';you';) would be intended to receive the same.





Now for the deeper perspective: the reason why finding ';true love'; can be difficult is because human beings operate based on outward appearances and emotion. Truth and love have absolutely nothing to do with what our senses taste, touch, smell, see, or hear, because what is seen is temporary and what is unseen is eternal. That's why people have the tendency to cast out and reject people who have pure motives, right hearts, and good intentions towards them while simultaneously accepting people who are wicked, controlling, self-serving, and hateful. Just look at the kind of guys that high school girls prefer to date, and you need not look any further as a prime example of this. In reality, the human mind and soul is enmity against both truth and love, and prefers to lean towards deception and darkness. The world destroys and tramples both truth and love every opportunity it gets. Everyone who ';truly loves'; anyone is persecuted, oppressed, rejected, and scorned because truth and love, while covering imperfections and weaknesses, also have the unique irony of serving as a mirror which shows people what they really are. Those who are good embrace true love because their reflection is one of worthiness and light. But those who are wicked reject true love because the reflection they see is one that shows them as corrupt, immoral, debase, and rotten, and the sheer sight of their true reflection causes moral condemnation, guilt, and fear of punishment.





';True love'; is something that can only be experienced (that is to say, received) by faith and administered (that is, given out) by someone who is filled with the Holy Spirit. The Bible says, ';the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us'; (Romans 5:5 KJV). True love is found only in people who are filled with the Spirit of God ... everyone else operates and walks in a defective - albeit sometimes convincingly real - kind of love.





God wants everyone to love their neighbor as they love themselves and to cause everyone to not only feel but know that they are loved, accepted, revered, respected, and cherished. We have a right to it, indeed. But all around us we see an insistent rebellion against the commandment of love. It's not God's fault we're not loved ... we are to blame for not loving one another as God intends.





For you to experience true love, you must go to the Source of Love, God Himself through faith. God loved you so much that He sent Jesus to Earth to bring His love to you. Of course, we all know how that turned out: when perfect love was made manifest in a man, the world killed him and hated him without cause.





But Jesus didn't stay dead, because love is stronger than death - He raised from the dead and became the power of resurrection so that all who seek life, love, and freedom might receive these things through faith in Him. If you place your faith in Him, God will re-order your life, show you true love, and also place people in your life who will be wellsprings of truth and love.





The decision is in your hands.





If you are courageous and open enough to truly pursue that which you seek, pray this from your heart:





';Heavenly Father, I have sinned against you and I ask for your forgiveness and mercy. I believe that Jesus came to Earth for me and that through Him I have the right to fellowship and unlimited love from You. I place my faith in Him and I believe that He is Lord of my life. Now release your Holy Spirit upon me, and fill me with life and love, in Jesus' Name I pray, Amen.';





If you prayed that by faith, then congratulations, you are now free and life is about to re-order itself around you. True love isn't just something that you will experience, it is something that you will become once you make that step of faith.
Please, please, make yourself get out of the house! I know it sounds too simple to work but that will help your mental state by leaps and bounds. Next, would you consider talking to someone like a counselor? Also, please don't under estimate the power of attending a good church. That is why God established churches. People need to bond with other people! I don't care how bad you feel about yourself right now, you're the only one who can bring you out of this. God has the power to heal, but you have to reach out and accept the healing! He won't force it on you, you've got to play your role.