This is a true situation and hope to find some solutions that I?

can share with my friend. Her daughter about 4 yrs is crazy about men. Men like our friend's husband (we have a circle of friends and their husbands). Everytime when she sees them, she would run to them and kiss them on knee, the hand or arm and cheek and would ask them to carry her and her attention would focus on the man only. There are also occasion, she ask on of the man to marry her, another time telling a husband of another friend, he is handsome. If adult man is not available she would focus on sons of our friends and said to wanting to their girlfriend?!?! She dislike girls and always said hates them. Now, her own father always work till late night on weekdays and during weekend, her father took her out too. But her mother said, the girl's father is very strict to her and the girl fear the father. (in short this girl had flirted with all her mother's male friend that her mother is clueless on how to deal with her daughter least to say shameful)





What can you say?This is a true situation and hope to find some solutions that I?
Man, ur narrative is hard to read when you leave out verbs and other important parts of sentences.


From what I can tell, your friends' 4 year old likes men. That's OK. She should like men. But she is missing a loving father, and may be seeking that love from others. This may fade, as time passes.


But if it doesn't, and her father does not spend more time with her, she will have trouble relating to men in a positive fashion later on. This is the kind of stuff that breeds prostitutes and summer-winter relationships.This is a true situation and hope to find some solutions that I?
thats basically normal of all little girls. she maybe just needs the attention shes not getting from her own dad. its not a real big deal, its actually very common and normal.
It's normal, don't make such a big thing out of it.